Oh... life!!!!

Work...Work... and more work...... is one's life is defined by your career?....

Well, for some people , career is very important in their life.....

Some people are lucky so to say.. they have a happy family..... great parents and siblings.. good education.... good job and when the time comes, great relationships.... wonderful spouses.. and great marriage....... a house with white picket fences... great children and in the end, they will die a happy person.............

But what if the person never has the luxuries that life has to offer..... difficult childhood...... and they have to struggled all their life in order to get what they want... and the only thing that is left is their education and career....... ... so u cant blame them for holding their work so dearly to their life... they feel that the only thing in their life that they can actually succeed is in their career...

But, what if some unfortunate day, they found out they they actually kinda sucks at doing their work...... people around them thought that they are good at it... given many responsibiliteies and counting on their "expertise" to handle it!!... And later found that the other "new" collegues are better at it.. *or seems to be better*?.....

They eventually... fall in the state of depression... putting themselves down and utterly.. devastatingly blame themselves for not being GREAT at what they do.........

Well... wake up honey... there is more to life than WORK!!!!!......... U still have ur life dear........ Go out... do something.. find a hobby.....

Like a wise person once told me...... Dont let ur work defined who you are........... you just work to get the money.. in order to pay bills and financed ur life... WORK does not define a person.... One may suck at work... but it doesnt mean that they're a bad person.. One may be good at work... but they can turns out to be completely "bad" person in life!!......

ands you dun have to LOVE ur work.......... methink bout 90% of working people in this world do not actually LOVE what they doin....... they just do it coz it puts food on the table and maybe for some extra luxuries .... they just do it for the MONEY la... aite!!...... there are whole lots of other thongs in life which u can love....... LOVE being ALIVE!!!.... love urself..... love urn family... ur friends...... that is where LOVE is suppose to be.... u can find sumthing that u love and do it!!... but not ur job... come on lah aite!!... but if u hapen to love ur work, then IT'S GREAT!!!!

Well......... Do we have to be loyal to our organisation?..... well.. maybe in the last CENTURY, people are loyal to their company... sticking to it through ups and downs..... but nowadays, people are no longer loyal to their organisation... as long as business is good, they will stick.. but when it got sucks, they will be the first one to say "CIAO!"........ People will always find new places that offer better pay or incentives..... People work for money..... its their main motivation.........

And lastly, never ever be too comfortable where you are now... the world is fast changing..... ur job might be obsolete in a few years.. so, learn as much as you can.. while you can.. gain experiences... try new things.... make urself an asset to the company.... or better still... be open tfor the possibility to "LICK" some important peoples asses... heh..heh.... You can go far if ur a good "LICKER"!!!!!!......

Just my two cents worth...

*this is just the writers personal view... the writer holds no responsibility for any untowards "licking' incidents..... heh...heh.....*